Sacred & Seen

Where Stories Meet, Identities Connect, and Every Voice is Sacred.


We like to think that reality is fixed—that the world happens to us in clear, unchanging ways. But how much of what we call “reality” is actually shaped by our perception?

Think about it: two people can walk through the same moment, the same conversation, or the same event, and come away with completely different truths. One person leaves feeling hurt, the other empowered. One feels overwhelmed, the other inspired. The difference isn’t the experience itself—it’s how it was seen, interpreted, and processed.

Perception is powerful. It colors our emotions, shapes our decisions, and even influences how our bodies respond to stress. And the incredible thing is this: we have the ability to shift it.

What if the way you see something isn’t the only way it exists? What if a simple change in perspective could soften your mood, lighten your heart, or even change the trajectory of your life?

Perspective shifts can be subtle or profound:

  • Seeing criticism as constructive feedback rather than a personal attack.
  • Recognizing a “failure” as a lesson in disguise.
  • Viewing uncertainty not as danger, but as opportunity.

When we practice stepping outside our initial interpretations, we open ourselves to freedom. We give ourselves permission to feel differently, to respond differently, and to live differently.

So here’s a question for you: 🌀
What’s one perspective shift that changed everything for you?

It could be small—a new way of seeing a person, a habit, or a situation. Or it could be life-altering—a mindset that transformed how you move through the world.

Let’s explore it together. Share your experience in the comments below 💬, and let’s remind each other that while we can’t always control what happens, we can choose how we see it.

Because sometimes, changing the way you look at things is the first step toward changing everything.


Reflective Exercise: Shifting Your Perspective 🌀

Take 10–15 minutes to step back, reflect, and explore how perception shapes your experience.

1. Identify a Recent Experience

  • Think of a moment in the past week that stirred strong emotions—frustration, sadness, anger, or anxiety.
  • Write a brief description of the event in your journal.

2. Describe Your Initial Perspective

  • How did you see the situation at the time?
  • What assumptions, judgments, or interpretations did you make?

3. Consider Alternative Perspectives

  • How might someone else have experienced the same moment?
  • What other interpretations or viewpoints could exist?
  • Could this challenge, frustration, or disappointment be an opportunity in disguise?

4. Shift Your Lens

  • Choose one new way to view the situation.
  • Reflect on how this perspective changes your emotional response, energy, or understanding.
  • Write down what you notice in your body, mood, and thoughts.

5. Set an Intention

  • Close your journaling session by setting an intention to practice perspective shifts in your daily life.
  • Example: “I will pause before reacting and consider another way of seeing the situation.”

✨ Tip: Perspective shifts don’t erase challenges—they help you navigate them with more clarity and peace. Revisit this exercise whenever you notice old patterns or limiting interpretations creeping in.


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I’m CJ Leigh

Sacred and Seen is a space where the intersections of identity are honored, and the sacredness of every story is uplifted. Through authentic conversations and reflections, we explore how experiences of race, gender, spirituality, motherhood, queerness, and culture shape who we are and how we connect. Rooted in the belief that our stories are interwoven and powerful, Sacred and Seen creates a space for deep listening, vulnerability, and collective healing—where every voice is seen, heard, and valued.

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